I wonder if people – black people especially – really appreciate how beautiful it is to live at a time when black men are allowing themselves to feel so openly, to be emotional in public.
Lupe articulates something that black men have been saying for a long time: that black men are dying, killing themselves and each other, that we live in a society where black male life is disposable. And he's eloquent on the substance of what you see in this clip.
But what is truly remarkable is that he lets himself feel something more than just frustration and anger at the plight of black men. This is a display of profound, deep sadness. It's love. Pure. Messy.
It takes Lupe a minute to find the words. Those precious, awkward moments before he starts to find the words are wonderous, awe-inspiring, and deeply affecting.
And yet, when I watched this I was uncomfortable because I still don't really know how to respond. This is not my vernacular. My reference is the 90s' cold, hard grip on "keepin it real," even as I never felt fully a part of that. My language is 2pac's righteous indignation and anger, even it left me in so many ways illiterate.
I struggle with deep emotion. Still.
Artists like Drake, J. Cole, Frank Ocean, Kanye West and others are playing in space that is quite new. And while I think they often confuse narcissism for reflection and miss the mark in communicating what they are genuinely feeling, I appreciate so very much that the range of emotion that black men can feel publicly – and be successful and lauded – is so much broader now than it has been in the past.
Millennials have so many more colors to play with than previous generations allowed themselves. We should celebrate that.
Posted on July 28th, 2012 - Filed under Culture,Music,Self-reflection
Tags :: 2pac, 90s hip hop, black men, crying, Drake, emotional, emotions, feelings, Frank Ocean, J. Cole, Kanye West, keepin it real, Lupe Fiasco, millennials, MTV, Sway, Tupac Shakur